This week’s topic organized by Nursing Freedom is about the analogy between nursing in public and smoking in public. This reminds me of another way that I have used smoking as an analogy to formula feeding – in reference to personal choice and health care professionals’ support of that choice.
So, suppose that you are a smoker. Your doctor can accept the fact that you are a smoker without necessarily supporting your smoking. She can encourage you to quit, and tell you all the reasons why smoking is a health risk, but of course she can’t force you not to smoke – that’s still your decision. Should she just leave it be because telling you these things may make you feel “guilty” for smoking? After all, it’s your personal decision. But that personal decision has negative health effects, and should not be supported by your health care professionals.
Let’s also look at the way that your health care provider does talk to you about smoking. Would she say, “Smoking is the typical choice, but let’s look at the extra bonus benefits of not smoking”? Or would it be, “Not smoking is the healthy choice, and there are negative health effects of smoking”? You may think that your reasons for smoking are fine and you don’t care about the risks, but your doctor still doesn’t have to support that decision as though it were an equally healthy choice. The doctor is still going to have plenty of patients who choose to smoke despite knowing the risks. She will accept it and work with the effects of your decision, but that is not the same thing as endorsing that choice. She’s not going to tell you that it’s just fine as long as you are happy, or that since you didn’t smoke for the first X years of your life that’s good enough.
Now think about the way that health care providers talk about formula and breastfeeding. Health care providers should talk about the health risks of formula feeding (as opposed to the “benefits of breastfeeding” – breastfeeding is the biological norm), without having to worry about someone feeling guilty. Their role is to encourage healthy behaviors, not to equivocate on the issue for fear of offending someone. If you do choose to use formula, your doctor will accept your choice and work with you, but she doesn’t have to present it as an equivalent option or try to make you feel better about your choice.
Also, just because you are already using cigarettes anyway, it doesn’t mean that your doctor should give you free cigarette samples. And it seems obvious that if you’ve already decided to quit smoking, your doctor shouldn’t send you home with a few free cigarettes “just in case” you fail. But that is just what happens every day when doctors and hospitals distribute free formula samples.
You will also hear plenty of people who say things like, “Well I’ve smoked for X years and I am perfectly healthy” or “Great Aunt Bessie smoked 2 packs a day for her whole life and lived to age 95″. Will that anecdote convince the health care professional? Will you hear your doctor tell you, “Well, a whole generation of people were smokers not that long ago, and they seem to have survived it, so I guess it’s no big deal. Forget about all the studies showing the health risks – you have anecdotal evidence that says it’s fine.” I sure hope not. And yet that’s pretty much what my first pediatrician said regarding a generation who grew up on formula.
Of course I think that breastfeeding is a choice that each mother must make on her own, but that does not mean that I think that breastfeeding and formula feeding are equivalent choices. Just like I don’t think that smoking and not smoking are equivalent choices. I still believe it is your choice to make though, whether you tried to breastfeed unsuccessfully, or you just didn’t feel like breastfeeding, or whatever your situation. The point is, that medical professionals should try to encourage and support you to make healthier choices by presenting accurate information, and should not pretend that it’s just a simple choice between two equals just to make you feel better when you don’t (or even can’t) breastfeed.




